Hes gay and lied

You control this situation. Newer, less-restricting identities are becoming popular — especially among younger people — and while they might sound strange to you, listen with an open mind and show interest. I think most guys in our situation would tell you that they have gained much more than they lost in a whole-of-life view. This could help to forge a bond between the two of you. For most people it was business as usual withbyour children that will be more challenging. One thing I forgot to say earlier which I think is also important is that I feared that by coming out I would lose everything, but it never occurred to me to think about what I might gain. He would come and have dinner with us, and help sooth the bumps through the bed-time routine, and listen while I unloaded on him.

Are you a high value woman? If he apologies sincerely , use your womanly God given intuition. Women like you just fuel the fire of inequality between the sexes. Can this be playing a factor as well?